2021.11.28 12:18 freudianipslip69 I feel like it's too late to set my boundaries with my boss and I don't know what to do
I just started my first ever job in mid-september as my boss' assistant, and everyone would jokingly warn me of his temper. That's a red flag, isn't it?
Everything I do is wrong. Last week, I sent him an email draft of what I'm supposed to be emailing this company for it's services and I misunderstood what he wanted. He wanted three seperate images and one banner, I thought he meant he wanted three separate images inside the design of the nomadic banner. Turns out he wanted three seperate images, and one banner. I didn't think of that, I tend to overthink and I thought that would be the correct thing to write out.
He called me over the phone (he was working from home that day) and started screaming at me down the phone to the point where my co-workers had to stop their conversation from how loud he was (it wasn't on speaker). He forced me to read out loud the email I sent him and then berated me on not listening to him and not following instructions, it was so bad I had a panic attack in the bathroom.
Thing is, no ones' going to stand up for me. And today he asked me a question and I misunderstood and he repeated it again in a super intimidating way and I just immediately cowered and apologised and said it was an extremely stupid mistake on my part. It's gotten to the point where he calls me to berate me and I know the script. I know that I have to apologise. And I hate that I'm not learning anything constructive, I'm just further degrading my self-esteem.
I can't leave this job because I'm the only breadwinner in my household right now. But I can change my boundaries, I think I just need help on that. If anyone reading this can give me any sort of advice on how to handle this, it would be great. Thank you.
submitted by freudianipslip69 to work [link] [comments]
2021.11.28 12:18 Chaiwala625 [M4f] Apocalypse
[ADULT SEEKING ADULT FOR A PURE FANTASY ROLEPLAY] No one knew that the zombie apocalypse was eventually going to become a reality, but it did. And overnight the lawlessness spread across the globe. The next morning, a fraction of the human population was able to call themselves human. The rest become a part of the horde of the undead who took over the planet overnight, basically putting the mankind closer and closer to the point of extinction day by day. I knew what was happening as soon as I walked out of my office building at 2 am on a quiet summer night, the silence broken by a woman screaming and the sounds of growling as the undead fed on her flesh, turning her into one of their own before they raced towards me. Adrenaline kicked in as I rush towards my brand new BMW SUV, climbing into the driver seat before pulling out of the underground parking lot and onto the street. I raced through crashed cars and burning highrises. I headed north to my gated cottage, driving past the helpless victims running away from the new and deadly predators of humans. I had reinforced my fences after a couple of weeks by scouting the nearby towns and "borrowing" their supplies. The property was large enough to house at least a hundred people and I knew I had to be a sanctuary for what remained of mankind. But everyone had to pay their dues. (Hello! So I'm looking to play this prompt towards a bit of a noncon/desperate direction where you or your family member will basically do anything to be let into my sanctuary to be safe. What I was thinking was a father using his daughter to get into the sanctuary. We can discuss more detailes over PM if your interested. Also, I will more than welcome your thoughts/idea and any additions you might want to add to the prompt, in fact, I highly prefer it :) All characters are obviously 18+ Kinklist:https://i.imgur.com/ftVfzb5.png Hope to hear from you! )
submitted by Chaiwala625 to roleplaying [link] [comments]
2021.11.28 12:18 FranskStefanMedOst Oblivion NPC aggression
|submitted by FranskStefanMedOst to memesITA [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 AdAlternative1268 Anyone doing cocaine with a perforated septum?
2021.11.28 12:18 The_watcher_100 What was a moment when you ran so fast that you probably broke the sound barrier?
2021.11.28 12:18 ntrash My order is still in AZ and is supposed to be delivered in FL, should I expect it to come after the expected delivery date?
|submitted by ntrash to FedEx [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 jnelrod Eminem when he wakes up
|submitted by jnelrod to Eminem [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 u-copycat Top 3 Best Stock Fundamentals APIs for 2022
|submitted by u-copycat to DevTo [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 wizzard__blizzard If you minted a Wizard #5149 or later during this weekend, you're automatically entered into an Elysian Fields land giveaway! ☀️
|submitted by wizzard__blizzard to cosmic [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 milkiest [ASMR] Phone Tapping [intentional]
|submitted by milkiest to asmr [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 ijirinaede Well :(
|submitted by ijirinaede to animememes [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 mother_o_kittens Tips on how to best parent an enneagram 4 child?
I tried to search to see if anyone asked this before but couldn’t find anything. Sorry to barge in and ask questions, but I’d love some advice!
I’m an 8w7 and my husband is a 5w4 - I know we aren’t supposed to type children but it’s just so obvious that it’s hard not to! We have a 3 year old who is presenting very much like a 4, which makes sense since that’s my husband’s very strong wing (and in my tritype). Luckily, he is able to connect with him many times and it’s wonderful. Unfortunately, I feel like an 8 mom is he worst thing to have for a 4 child…
Any tips on what you wished your parents would have done/not done when you were a child (especially if you had an 8 parent) would be greatly appreciated! I know it is impossible to be a perfect parent, but I’d love to not confirm those childhood wounds and stress points for him on a daily basis lol.
For example: when he starts getting upset for whatever reason, as all 3 year olds tend to do, it doesn’t stop. It feels like there’s nothing I can say or do to get him to calm down. We do deep breathing together and that helps me as much as him, but my instinct is to say something like “shove it deep down inside and stop feeling that way” because that’s my unhealthy coping mechanism! But not only is that unhealthy for most people, it feels detrimental to a 4. I try to let him feel his emotions but I tend to intellectualize emotions (Why are you feeling this way? What can we do to not make you feel this way again?) and it’s hard to just let him be. Sometimes he has said to me, “I just want to be sad!”
Meanwhile, I have a 6 year old that’s a prime example of an enneagram 7 and we have to force him to feel his feelings haha! Having children has taught my 8-ness a lot about emotions that I was completely clueless about before!
submitted by mother_o_kittens to EnneagramType4 [link] [comments]
2021.11.28 12:18 HaXxXoVtotheZ New trending GIF on Giphy
|submitted by HaXxXoVtotheZ to BestGifsEver [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 RadioNameLRIL02 「共産と握手、表に出すものではない」 鳩山元首相が語る政権奪取論
|submitted by RadioNameLRIL02 to GiinSenkyo [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 uniqloboi123 Quick VR Preview with the Quest for Interior Projects?
| Hello peps,|
i was wondering if there is an Application like gravity sketch with a function to walk with the thumbsticks (1:1 Scale) just like in a game?
In general is there an good alternative for Architecture ?
submitted by uniqloboi123 to architecture [link] [comments]
2021.11.28 12:18 IamBestWaffle Freecash.com - #1 online-earning website - highest payouts (withdraw crypto, paypal, gift cards & more)
Link: https://freecash.com/itsyoboiwaffle - for a 0.10$ bonus (100 coins)
About Freecash: The Website is active since 2020 and cashed out over 1.000.000$ to users. They have a 24/7 live support, a FAQ page and a global chat for all users. The website is for every country. The offers on the offerwalls are different in every country.
How to earn: You can earn coins by doing game tasks and surveys from different offerwalls under the "Earn" section. You can get extra coins by getting on the daily or monthly leaderboards.
Withdraw: You can withdraw the money with paypal or crypto (btc, eth, ltc). You can withdraw over 10 different gift cards too (Amazon, Steam & more). Crypto withdrawals start at 0.10$. All the withdraws should be there within 20 minutes if there are no problems.
How much money can you make with Freecash?: The more time you invest the more you can earn. It also depends on the offers you do. Making $100+ a month is easily possible. Some people get over 1000$ in a month too!
submitted by IamBestWaffle to promote [link] [comments]
2021.11.28 12:18 ThatsNotMyAlt NIKE finds a new worker for its Shoe Factory, (1989)
|submitted by ThatsNotMyAlt to fakehistoryporn [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 lonelygoldie First party w/ social anxiety ?
So this guy I’ve been talking too invited me to his friends gf bday party in a couple days and I’m (F19) already freaking out about it. It’ll be around 15 people girls & guys. I’ve never been to a party before or even hung around that many people 😭 I feel like backing out SO bad but I know I should force myself to go. I haven’t hung around anybody and had genuine fun all year so I desperately need to get out of my comfort zone.
I’m naturally shy & introverted but I feel like I lost any and all social skills since I graduated Highschool 😭 I started a new job and I haven’t made one work friend yet , nobody talks to me and I feel self conscious like I’m doing something wrong or it’s the way I look. Idk how I’m supposed to go to a party where everybody already knows each other and I haven’t even met anyone ! I’ll just be the odd one out.
I’m really thinking about coming up with some excuse. I have no idea what I’m supposed to do. I told him that I feel nervous but he said I shouldn’t be because everyone’s friendly and they’ll be talking to me. Still though , I’m a socially awkward insecure mess. There’s gonna be alcohol too and ik that’s supposed to help with anxiety . I’ve never had alcohol before though so idk how I’ll react to it.
it’s gonna be a sleepover too since everybody will be drinking…
The birthday girl is fucking GORGEOUS and I’m sure all her friends are too. 🙃 I feel like I need to learn how to do makeup by next week or add some spice to myself so I won’t be all intimidated. The fact that I’m thinking so deep into this is a clear indicator that I SHOULDNT go lmao fuckkkkkk. I’m gonna be alone for the rest of my life.
submitted by lonelygoldie to Advice [link] [comments]
2021.11.28 12:18 rockytacos1 Super Grizzly drilled mounting hole?
I have a Bear Super Grizzly 50lb recurve bow and I was wondering about taking it to a bow shop and having a mounting hole drilled on it for a bow fishing reel. Preferably a megamouth 2.0 reel. So it would be 1 hole drilled into the front of the bow rather than a few holes on the side. Thank you.
submitted by rockytacos1 to Archery [link] [comments]
2021.11.28 12:18 EitherInvite SUBX Finance Lab 🚀 | Product Release | Staking App 💲 | Swap App 🔥 |AMA with Client
A blockchain-as-a-service provider, SUBX FINANCE LAB help businesses and blockchain projects to integrate web3 technologies into their products and services.
SFX as a web3 infrastructure provider
In addition to providing the necessary web3 infrastructure for businesses, current and upcoming clients will have to use $SFX as means of purchase for SFX products. This is built to increase the buying pressure of $SFX, making it always in demand.
SUBX Finance Lab Staking App 🔥
As part of the first products they have released since their launch 6 days ago, holders can now get 105% APY rewards by staking their $SFX token. So far, more than $400k USD worth of SFX tokens are staked in their vaults, almost ¼ of the circulating supply. Tell me that is not a bullish sentiment.
Swap App 🚀
As for their second product, everyone can now transact SFX tokens effortlessly by using SUBX Finance Lab’s Swap App – an easier way to trade $SFX.
See link below to purchase $SFX:
Client AMA #1
As a blockchain-as-a-service provider, they would be all talks and no action if they did not provide any services. Earlier today, the SFX team did their first client AMA – within just 6 days after their project launch!!! The team literally never sleeps and moves at insane speed!
Watch the AMA here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6grigDNwkBg&t=283s
Visit SUBX Finance Lab to learn more about the project. 🚀
For Inquiries, join their Discord and Telegram chats.
SUBX Finance Lab has the most transparent and engaging community, mods are up 24/7 too!
submitted by EitherInvite to CryptoMoonCoins [link] [comments]
2021.11.28 12:18 HaXxXoVtotheZ New trending GIF on Giphy
|submitted by HaXxXoVtotheZ to BestGifsEver [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 RLCD-Bot [Octane] [Jolt Bangle III] [OEM]
|submitted by RLCD-Bot to RLCustomDesigns [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 cacam1 two month old helix. is this a keloid? can't really tell if it's a bump or a keloid
|submitted by cacam1 to piercing [link] [comments]|
2021.11.28 12:18 Darth_Maulchain Continuity/Discontinuity of the Greatest Integer Function
2021.11.28 12:18 worldlovespain [PS4] [Help] [ds3] Twin princes help